Subjectivity of value - their meanings. Distraction What does the word for you ... Handle? Maybe none, maybe hand to someone is very much indeed. This is because each of us associated with the words seemingly trivial memories more or less strong. There may also be words which are linked to unpleasant events, such as fork myself (yes, I was a child fork in the head by a fellow asylum). In other words, words taking shape and different amounts depending on who the law as the law when the law.
Have you ever tried however to expand this vision to something more challenging, for example, the values \u200b\u200bthat everyone has? I am reminded of the honor, each one of us certainly has a view, albeit slightly blurred, other than that maybe our sister rather than our father. This is because in fact, they tend to see the world in their perspective and to consider things with your meter. In fact, seeing things through the eyes of others is certainly something very difficult and on the other hand, that argument would require a very exhaustive investigation.
Returning to but everyone has a different conception of values, because there Adentro in the climax of the speech by proposing as a method of comparison ... Friendship? This friendship, this theme is so sickly sweet girl and Nutella. The thing is friendship for you? I can think of a post I read some time ago in a forum that is moderated "Ah, for me, friendship is a huge boiata, I have no time to waste on such things ...". The person who said this sentence, it seems, had a very particular conception of friendship, especially so as to be considered a useless and unimportant. Other people see friendship as something so precious to put almost the same level of love: to quote a dear friend "Friends are the brothers that I've decided I" certainly does a lot Mulino Bianco that but the idea is to make as does the subject of "friendship" from person to person. There are people however, perhaps the most disturbing in my opinion, they consider friendship as a social convention that is something they must submit as required by the company. Digression on my comments on to concerns that I raise these people: they, at least those who say they find friendship useless take a position, as well as those who myeloma consider the most noble and pure values, but consider it on equal footing with himself the bathroom every day for not stink, rather that comb in the morning otherwise it seems crazy, at least to me, of disquietude.
To dissect further the argument, one might consider the friendship itself, and because it has so many facets to different people before us. Friendship fact, let's face it, this is not for everyone: a similar relationship involves a great deal of energy and commitment truly remarkable. Being a friend of a person can mean many things, for example, offer a shoulder to cry on in times of sadness, a hand to grasp those in need, a voice to listen to reassure you that in times of uncertainty, a dispenser of advice in short rather than handkerchiefs or chocolates (You know, chocolate is a good antidepressant!). Being a friend of a person, however, may mean also and above all else: open yourself to another, allowing him to see your weak side, the one that needs more protection and support, allowing him to stay by your side when you are afflicted (or afflicted, any woman who ever is reading the blog I'm dimenticatodaddio) handed over your uncertainties and trusting in him, his friend. Well, many people are not capable of this, many people simply make friends "passive" (no, not yield to your waiting for a 90 "stroke"), nodding when you talk to him, dispensing advice pennies and feeling so affixed with the consciousness. Eh, Unfortunately, the friendship is not a line but requires a one-way exchange of "amicosità", otherwise one of the two nodes sooner or later break the connection (and thanks to Prof. Marchiori networks for inspiring me this metaphor XD). Perhaps this is the biggest challenge of friendship: Not everyone wants to let them penetrate the sharp bark of sea urchin!
James Quadrio
PS: Forgive the terrible post last night, it will be terrible grammatically, lexically and structurally awkward limp. I But got the inspiration to write something about the hole I'm blogging, and then I did ...!
PS: I would like to thank a friend who has inspired me in writing this article, in the sense that talking to him, we just touched the topic of friendship in these terms: D
